I feel like this past week was "my friend just had a premature baby" week. I have fielded many calls and emails about these precious new lives born into the world early. Each time I hear about a new baby born too soon my heart hurts a little. I physically ache for these parents who are now part of this exclusive club. This club is special, it isn't one you ever dream that you will become a member of, but once you are your life will never be the same. New members are welcomed with open arms and given a lifeline that they can cling to, to weather this storm that has engulfed their life. Veteran members offer advice, comfort, a shoulder to cry on, understanding, and hope. We have been there, we have seen things that people should never see. We have felt our hearts shatter and learned how to pick up the pieces and put them back together. We have born witness to the strength of our babies, and ourselves. We have felt that weariness that settles deep in your bones when you don't think you can take another step, much less get up and pump for the next 20 minutes. We know that kangarooing isn't about an animal. A PDA has nothing to do
with teenagers making out in the hallway at school. A's, B's, and D's
aren't grades. We will support you on this journey, we will celebrate with you, and we will mourn with you because we know some bodies are just too fragile.
So, to all the new members this week, welcome.
